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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 252821" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Take Missy outside and park the car in the same spot - (seriously try this) </p><p> </p><p>Then both of you just stand in front of the car. Tell her to close her eyes. Now tell her to think about what she did that day when she had your keys - no pressures, calm voice - just think - think------okay now tell her to go through the motions of getting in the car - she unlocks the door, she reaches for whatever - she gets out of the car - she walks in the house and she goes - WHERE? </p><p> </p><p>In EMDR therapy we learned this really neat memory rentention skill - and you rewind your motions in our heads and then play them back as if we had the remote and could control where we went. </p><p> </p><p>If she gets at all frustrated tell her that (I) wanted her to try this to see just how much she "could" remember of that day. I have a feeling that she's had them in her hands, got distracted and sat them down in an unusual place - but she has to walk through that time calmly and only once with you. She may remember something. </p><p> </p><p>I see them - sitting on a computer desk or maybe being sat on a desk or table and the weight of the key ring made them fall between something - but I see something blue....blue gray - (could be a pretty donkey) <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p><p> </p><p>GOOD LUCK.....</p><p> </p><p>(hates to loose keys - but since I lost my mind - keys are NOT the problem)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 252821, member: 4964"] Take Missy outside and park the car in the same spot - (seriously try this) Then both of you just stand in front of the car. Tell her to close her eyes. Now tell her to think about what she did that day when she had your keys - no pressures, calm voice - just think - think------okay now tell her to go through the motions of getting in the car - she unlocks the door, she reaches for whatever - she gets out of the car - she walks in the house and she goes - WHERE? In EMDR therapy we learned this really neat memory rentention skill - and you rewind your motions in our heads and then play them back as if we had the remote and could control where we went. If she gets at all frustrated tell her that (I) wanted her to try this to see just how much she "could" remember of that day. I have a feeling that she's had them in her hands, got distracted and sat them down in an unusual place - but she has to walk through that time calmly and only once with you. She may remember something. I see them - sitting on a computer desk or maybe being sat on a desk or table and the weight of the key ring made them fall between something - but I see something blue....blue gray - (could be a pretty donkey) :raspberry-tounge: GOOD LUCK..... (hates to loose keys - but since I lost my mind - keys are NOT the problem) [/QUOTE]
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