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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 312996" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I think he was probably wanting to change about him the things that wanted to change about him. I would <em>totally</em> want husband to start taking up the slack if he weren't working. He probably feels that these are all things that you did (or put up with) without his help for all of those years, and he wasn't expecting you to change the rules on him. He may have thought that he might like to start walking and then running, and he's probably a bit disappointed that he isn't doing that. But knowing men? I'm thinking that chipping in around the house never once entered his mind. It just wasn't in the rules or the game plan.</p><p></p><p>In my experience, four or five years of intensive marriage counseling might help. <em>Might... </em>If he <em>wants</em> help.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/clubbing.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":clubbing:" title="clubbing :clubbing:" data-shortname=":clubbing:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 312996, member: 99"] I think he was probably wanting to change about him the things that wanted to change about him. I would [I]totally[/I] want husband to start taking up the slack if he weren't working. He probably feels that these are all things that you did (or put up with) without his help for all of those years, and he wasn't expecting you to change the rules on him. He may have thought that he might like to start walking and then running, and he's probably a bit disappointed that he isn't doing that. But knowing men? I'm thinking that chipping in around the house never once entered his mind. It just wasn't in the rules or the game plan. In my experience, four or five years of intensive marriage counseling might help. [I]Might... [/I]If he [I]wants[/I] help. :clubbing: [/QUOTE]
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