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Why did he even come home?
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<blockquote data-quote="NOLA" data-source="post: 124378" data-attributes="member: 3515"><p>Thanks for those HUGS - I needed them <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Just wanted to vent a quick update - husband had the conversation with-him last night when he came home (I went to bed) - difficult child says he decided not to take the cid, wanted & planned to but ultimately managed to resist the temptation. </p><p></p><p>As luck would have it, the OTC drug tests do not have a screen for LSD or acid so that was a bust. Also, husband reports that he was completely sober & did not appear to have taken anything at all. Does husband believe him? Absolutely - Do I? Would like to but....</p><p></p><p>Called the PO this am - she's on maternity leave so I talked to her replacement - I didn't think it could get worse but let's just say we need to just forget about those allies in our efforts to save him from himself. </p><p></p><p>I spoke with him before he went to work this evening & he sang the 'I did what I was supposed to do' song; offered to take any tests we could find that shows cid; showed me his money, etc. Said he knows he can't do this alone, wants our help, wants to go to support meetings, etc., but still is saying we don't understand how things really are out there --- EVERYONE is either drunk or high " he thinks the only way to get through this is to learn how to say no while with his friends because even if he finds a new group of friends the drugs & drink are surrounding them all.</p><p></p><p>So the rollercoaster ride continues&#8230;Happy Mardi Gras!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="NOLA, post: 124378, member: 3515"] Thanks for those HUGS - I needed them :) Just wanted to vent a quick update - husband had the conversation with-him last night when he came home (I went to bed) - difficult child says he decided not to take the cid, wanted & planned to but ultimately managed to resist the temptation. As luck would have it, the OTC drug tests do not have a screen for LSD or acid so that was a bust. Also, husband reports that he was completely sober & did not appear to have taken anything at all. Does husband believe him? Absolutely - Do I? Would like to but.... Called the PO this am - she's on maternity leave so I talked to her replacement - I didn't think it could get worse but let's just say we need to just forget about those allies in our efforts to save him from himself. I spoke with him before he went to work this evening & he sang the 'I did what I was supposed to do' song; offered to take any tests we could find that shows cid; showed me his money, etc. Said he knows he can't do this alone, wants our help, wants to go to support meetings, etc., but still is saying we don't understand how things really are out there --- EVERYONE is either drunk or high " he thinks the only way to get through this is to learn how to say no while with his friends because even if he finds a new group of friends the drugs & drink are surrounding them all. So the rollercoaster ride continues…Happy Mardi Gras! [/QUOTE]
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