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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 351499" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>This is the problem with using passive aggressive behavior to cause someone to do what you want so you don't have confrontation. It would be a good idea to point this out to her if you get a chance, sort of an FYI thing.</p><p></p><p>Exbf obviously didn't want to break up. Jana wanted to and manipulated the situation so that exbf was pushed into doing something he wouldn't have otherwise considered because he wasn't at that point himself. So when he cooled down and had a chance to think........he's going OMG what did I just do?? And so is trying to fix what he sees as this huge mistake he's just made and is doing all he can to get back the woman he loves. And because he believes he is the one who did it all, he is having trouble getting the message that Jana is done.</p><p></p><p>Most likely if she has a pattern of using this method to dump guys she no longer wants to be with.........this is why they have trouble letting go. If she'd chose to confront him and discuss how she felt, he'd know up front and most likely wouldn't bother continuing to pursue her whether he was at the same point himself or not because he'd know it was futile.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 351499, member: 84"] This is the problem with using passive aggressive behavior to cause someone to do what you want so you don't have confrontation. It would be a good idea to point this out to her if you get a chance, sort of an FYI thing. Exbf obviously didn't want to break up. Jana wanted to and manipulated the situation so that exbf was pushed into doing something he wouldn't have otherwise considered because he wasn't at that point himself. So when he cooled down and had a chance to think........he's going OMG what did I just do?? And so is trying to fix what he sees as this huge mistake he's just made and is doing all he can to get back the woman he loves. And because he believes he is the one who did it all, he is having trouble getting the message that Jana is done. Most likely if she has a pattern of using this method to dump guys she no longer wants to be with.........this is why they have trouble letting go. If she'd chose to confront him and discuss how she felt, he'd know up front and most likely wouldn't bother continuing to pursue her whether he was at the same point himself or not because he'd know it was futile. [/QUOTE]
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