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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 250812" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I didnt have a whole lot of people that ever told me or insinuated that my kids problems were my fault. Not their mental health problems. Now I did have a social services caseworker almost accuse me of breaking Cory's arm when she saw him in a half body cast after he had surgery on his left shoulder. </p><p></p><p>Picture this cute little boy having to wear his much older brothers shirts to cover this huge cast. He looks pitiful. She glares at me and snarls...what on earth did you do to him? I looked at her and said...Cory...tell her about your shoulder. He went into detail about his operation at DUKE! LOL. Like I would take a kid into DSS that I had abused. Please...Im not stupid. </p><p></p><p>I guess I was pretty lucky that I started very young with my kids and we stayed with the same agency so everyone knew our family. I know that they did document comments like if the kids came in disheveled on certain days or if I seemed overly stressed. Hey....we were extremely poor when they were first starting therapy. I did my best to keep them in clean clothes even if I could not always afford brand new name brand clothes. Sometimes therapy was after school or straight from headstart. Cory got dirty quick! I read that stuff in his Exceptional Child folder years later....they had notes from when he was little. I just laughed and did a little editing of my own. (dumb bunny's had me hand carry the file from one school to another and I decided to have lunch and read the file!)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 250812, member: 1514"] I didnt have a whole lot of people that ever told me or insinuated that my kids problems were my fault. Not their mental health problems. Now I did have a social services caseworker almost accuse me of breaking Cory's arm when she saw him in a half body cast after he had surgery on his left shoulder. Picture this cute little boy having to wear his much older brothers shirts to cover this huge cast. He looks pitiful. She glares at me and snarls...what on earth did you do to him? I looked at her and said...Cory...tell her about your shoulder. He went into detail about his operation at DUKE! LOL. Like I would take a kid into DSS that I had abused. Please...Im not stupid. I guess I was pretty lucky that I started very young with my kids and we stayed with the same agency so everyone knew our family. I know that they did document comments like if the kids came in disheveled on certain days or if I seemed overly stressed. Hey....we were extremely poor when they were first starting therapy. I did my best to keep them in clean clothes even if I could not always afford brand new name brand clothes. Sometimes therapy was after school or straight from headstart. Cory got dirty quick! I read that stuff in his Exceptional Child folder years later....they had notes from when he was little. I just laughed and did a little editing of my own. (dumb bunny's had me hand carry the file from one school to another and I decided to have lunch and read the file!) [/QUOTE]
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