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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 174362" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I had difficult child's call mother in law's house all last week to try and nail down plans for the weekend with their Dad. <span style="color: red">This sounds pretty normal. </span> difficult child I finally got her Friday nite and she said she'd have S2BX call difficult child's Sat. <span style="color: red">morning okay gma thanks</span> and that he'd take them for the day.<span style="color: red"><strong>NOT HER PLACE TO TELL THAT - he may have had other plans - like blowing off his kids for booze.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/919Mad.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":919Mad:" title="Mad :919Mad:" data-shortname=":919Mad:" /></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: red"><strong></strong></span></p><p>Sat. came and went with no call, <span style="color: red">Did you honestly expect one?</span> I even had <span style="color: red">NO NO NO - difficult child calls once, then no call back? Don't teach him to chase a man who doesn't honor his promises....and by promises I don't mean that your xMIL made plans - what if he was already doing something else and didn't even KNOW about these plans?</span> difficult child's call and leave messages twice. Emailed S2BX last nite, <span style="color: red">(nah - no more of that - put out your hand - spank spank)</span> stating point blankly the kids were disappointed <span style="color: red">and apparently you think wasting your time to tell him how anyone but HIM feels is healthy?</span> and that if he thought he'd want them today <span style="color: red"><strong><u>HE ACTUALLY WOULD BE GIVEN ANOTHER CHANCE? NO WONDER HE THINKS HE CAN WALK ALL OVER YOU AND THE KIDS _ ONE CHANCE _ BLOW THAT NO MORE CALLS< EMAILS.......he </u></strong></span>should call me asap, b4 we went on with our plans. <span style="color: red">YOU JUST GO ON WITH YOUR PLANS HE CAN CATCH UP WITH YOU NOT YOU FOLLOWING HIM AROUND ENABLING HIM TO GET ANOTHER CHANCE!!!!!</span> No calls today, <span style="color: darkorchid">(I'd like to find a word that means duh, without being offensive)</span> and I will not have difficult child's leave any more messages<span style="color: darkorchid"><strong>,(GOOD)</strong></span> he know's the phone #'s, <span style="color: darkorchid">RIGHT ON!!!!!</span> he is reading my email,<span style="color: darkorchid">(WHY ARE YOU SENDING HIM ANYTHING? </span>so if he is avoiding speaking to me, YA THINK???? <span style="color: darkorchid"><strong>NO CALLS NO EMAILS NO PLANS TO SPEND TIME WITH THE BOYS AND GIVE YOU A MUCH NEEDED BREAK????? ARGH....</strong></span>he could just pop me a one liner. <span style="color: red">I'd like to pop him!</span> I am thinking one of two things: a. his attorney has advised him not to contact me <span style="color: red">Um......that would have to be in writing. HE DOES HAVE A LEGAL responsibility to his boys and if he were trying for reduced child support you think this man would WANT to show the court he loves to spend time with his boys!</span><u>or</u> b. he's already fallen off the wagon.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> <span style="color: deepskyblue">Okay - and what if he a. NEVER KNEW about the call - s2bxmil - is a kniving witch - right? So what if she NEVER told him about the calls - and erased the phone messages and then got on his computer and erased his emails from you???</span> </p><p> </p><p>-yeah right. pft......I think I"m going with off the wagon - a shame really but THIS IS WHY YOU ARE NOT WITH HIM - he has /had a BEAUTIFUL WONDERFUL CHANCE GIVING wife - and 2 beautiful boys and he can't get his head out of the bottle long enough to fight for them......WHY do you keep fighting for the opportunity to give him the benefit of the doubt? LET HIM BE - and let him find his sobriety - GO ON with your life. ENJOY your boys while they are young and ENJOY your self why you are still young. Time doesn't wait for anyone......</p><p></p><p>I am very worried, I am having a sad, anxious feeling in my heart. Pretty normal - so friend says DETACH DETACH DETACH - go print out the detachment 101 pages and read it - but instead of difficult child apply S2BX. </p><p> </p><p>I CARE ABOUT YOU -I HAVE been there done that - we've talked about this haven't we???? Hmmmm.??????? </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 174362, member: 4964"] I had difficult child's call mother in law's house all last week to try and nail down plans for the weekend with their Dad. [COLOR=red]This sounds pretty normal. [/COLOR] difficult child I finally got her Friday nite and she said she'd have S2BX call difficult child's Sat. [COLOR=red]morning okay gma thanks[/COLOR] and that he'd take them for the day.[COLOR=red][B]NOT HER PLACE TO TELL THAT - he may have had other plans - like blowing off his kids for booze.:tearinghair: [/B][/COLOR] Sat. came and went with no call, [COLOR=red]Did you honestly expect one?[/COLOR] I even had [COLOR=red]NO NO NO - difficult child calls once, then no call back? Don't teach him to chase a man who doesn't honor his promises....and by promises I don't mean that your xMIL made plans - what if he was already doing something else and didn't even KNOW about these plans?[/COLOR] difficult child's call and leave messages twice. Emailed S2BX last nite, [COLOR=red](nah - no more of that - put out your hand - spank spank)[/COLOR] stating point blankly the kids were disappointed [COLOR=red]and apparently you think wasting your time to tell him how anyone but HIM feels is healthy?[/COLOR] and that if he thought he'd want them today [COLOR=red][B][U]HE ACTUALLY WOULD BE GIVEN ANOTHER CHANCE? NO WONDER HE THINKS HE CAN WALK ALL OVER YOU AND THE KIDS _ ONE CHANCE _ BLOW THAT NO MORE CALLS< EMAILS.......he [/U][/B][/COLOR]should call me asap, b4 we went on with our plans. [COLOR=red]YOU JUST GO ON WITH YOUR PLANS HE CAN CATCH UP WITH YOU NOT YOU FOLLOWING HIM AROUND ENABLING HIM TO GET ANOTHER CHANCE!!!!![/COLOR] No calls today, [COLOR=darkorchid](I'd like to find a word that means duh, without being offensive)[/COLOR] and I will not have difficult child's leave any more messages[COLOR=darkorchid][B],(GOOD)[/B][/COLOR] he know's the phone #'s, [COLOR=darkorchid]RIGHT ON!!!!![/COLOR] he is reading my email,[COLOR=darkorchid](WHY ARE YOU SENDING HIM ANYTHING? [/COLOR]so if he is avoiding speaking to me, YA THINK???? [COLOR=darkorchid][B]NO CALLS NO EMAILS NO PLANS TO SPEND TIME WITH THE BOYS AND GIVE YOU A MUCH NEEDED BREAK????? ARGH....[/B][/COLOR]he could just pop me a one liner. [COLOR=red]I'd like to pop him![/COLOR] I am thinking one of two things: a. his attorney has advised him not to contact me [COLOR=red]Um......that would have to be in writing. HE DOES HAVE A LEGAL responsibility to his boys and if he were trying for reduced child support you think this man would WANT to show the court he loves to spend time with his boys![/COLOR][U]or[/U] b. he's already fallen off the wagon.:frowny: [COLOR=deepskyblue]Okay - and what if he a. NEVER KNEW about the call - s2bxmil - is a kniving witch - right? So what if she NEVER told him about the calls - and erased the phone messages and then got on his computer and erased his emails from you???[/COLOR] -yeah right. pft......I think I"m going with off the wagon - a shame really but THIS IS WHY YOU ARE NOT WITH HIM - he has /had a BEAUTIFUL WONDERFUL CHANCE GIVING wife - and 2 beautiful boys and he can't get his head out of the bottle long enough to fight for them......WHY do you keep fighting for the opportunity to give him the benefit of the doubt? LET HIM BE - and let him find his sobriety - GO ON with your life. ENJOY your boys while they are young and ENJOY your self why you are still young. Time doesn't wait for anyone...... I am very worried, I am having a sad, anxious feeling in my heart. Pretty normal - so friend says DETACH DETACH DETACH - go print out the detachment 101 pages and read it - but instead of difficult child apply S2BX. I CARE ABOUT YOU -I HAVE been there done that - we've talked about this haven't we???? Hmmmm.??????? Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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