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<blockquote data-quote="lovemyson1" data-source="post: 694664" data-attributes="member: 16643"><p>So so soooo sorry for what you're going through TL. It's hard to not worry and have pain when this is happening. I believe you need to try though. Try to distract yourself from what he's doing bc worrying will solve nothing, it only takes from your life. It's true what many have said here, only he can make the choice to get clean. Only he has the power to stop. We are not responsible for our Difficult Child's decisions and yet we blame ourselves, worry like crazy, cry, look for solutions... none of this is helpful. Until we let go and let them feel consequences for their actions and let them find solutions we will keep feeling this pain. I'm glad you are enjoying your husband and vacation. Enjoy your family, enjoy your life. Let your son know that you support his sobriety and then let him choose his destiny. Again, I'm sorry for your pain and wish none of us had to feel this way. God bless.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemyson1, post: 694664, member: 16643"] So so soooo sorry for what you're going through TL. It's hard to not worry and have pain when this is happening. I believe you need to try though. Try to distract yourself from what he's doing bc worrying will solve nothing, it only takes from your life. It's true what many have said here, only he can make the choice to get clean. Only he has the power to stop. We are not responsible for our Difficult Child's decisions and yet we blame ourselves, worry like crazy, cry, look for solutions... none of this is helpful. Until we let go and let them feel consequences for their actions and let them find solutions we will keep feeling this pain. I'm glad you are enjoying your husband and vacation. Enjoy your family, enjoy your life. Let your son know that you support his sobriety and then let him choose his destiny. Again, I'm sorry for your pain and wish none of us had to feel this way. God bless. [/QUOTE]
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