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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 247343" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Yep. Put it right out there on the table. You have a right to know upfront if you're wasting your time and effort.</p><p> </p><p>I went to a therapist for awhile after the truck accident that happened to open my eyes permanently as to husband. therapist wanted to focus on my relationship with husband. After a few sessions I got fed up. I wasn't there because of husband, I was there to learn to cope with Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) issues.</p><p> </p><p>So I told her, what relationship with husband? There was none and really never had been. I was the relationship. If it hadn't been years worth of effort on my part.......the marriage would've been over in it's early years. husband could've been spoiled and loved outta his mind......all he had to do was love me back and make an honest effort at the relationship. husband can't/won't do that. therapist told me I was being too hard on husband. I told her then she needed to live with the man. lol At that point husband had had 20 yrs worth of chances and opportunity. I was done. The love was dead. No amount of rehashing was going to change it.</p><p> </p><p>After 25 yrs of it being all me........uh, no. I deserve better. I deserve to be loved and cherished. So I'm working on my freedom. IF husband can wake up and get a clue before then.......I dunno. Like I said, the love is dead. I don't know if he could do anything at this point to turn it around.</p><p> </p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 247343, member: 84"] Yep. Put it right out there on the table. You have a right to know upfront if you're wasting your time and effort. I went to a therapist for awhile after the truck accident that happened to open my eyes permanently as to husband. therapist wanted to focus on my relationship with husband. After a few sessions I got fed up. I wasn't there because of husband, I was there to learn to cope with Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) issues. So I told her, what relationship with husband? There was none and really never had been. I was the relationship. If it hadn't been years worth of effort on my part.......the marriage would've been over in it's early years. husband could've been spoiled and loved outta his mind......all he had to do was love me back and make an honest effort at the relationship. husband can't/won't do that. therapist told me I was being too hard on husband. I told her then she needed to live with the man. lol At that point husband had had 20 yrs worth of chances and opportunity. I was done. The love was dead. No amount of rehashing was going to change it. After 25 yrs of it being all me........uh, no. I deserve better. I deserve to be loved and cherished. So I'm working on my freedom. IF husband can wake up and get a clue before then.......I dunno. Like I said, the love is dead. I don't know if he could do anything at this point to turn it around. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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