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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 325836" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>And let me add that I've seen the results of the flip side, too. My bro's bio mom was not in his life after he was about 18 mos old. The family always portrayed her to him as a saint and he never had any worries about her in that regard. Then, when he was about 17yo he learned the awful truth about her. Not only did he feeel just as abondoned and rejected and hurt, he felt betrayed on top of it. He has lived his life hating women and being very screwed up- maybe a narcissist or bitter or wanting retaliation or something- it's obvious something isn't right with him but he refuses to accept that he needs to see a therapist. He says he can't remember most of his childhood and that "everything is fine". Yeah- right.</p><p></p><p>There is no way to make things like this easy on a child, unfortunately.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 325836, member: 3699"] And let me add that I've seen the results of the flip side, too. My bro's bio mom was not in his life after he was about 18 mos old. The family always portrayed her to him as a saint and he never had any worries about her in that regard. Then, when he was about 17yo he learned the awful truth about her. Not only did he feeel just as abondoned and rejected and hurt, he felt betrayed on top of it. He has lived his life hating women and being very screwed up- maybe a narcissist or bitter or wanting retaliation or something- it's obvious something isn't right with him but he refuses to accept that he needs to see a therapist. He says he can't remember most of his childhood and that "everything is fine". Yeah- right. There is no way to make things like this easy on a child, unfortunately. [/QUOTE]
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