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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 445272" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Your post, klmno, made me think of a situation that happened some years ago, when I was married to my (Moroccan) ex-husband. I was staying with a French friend who was due to get married to a Moroccan guy, a childhood acquaintance of my husband. She had various reasons to doubt the relationship, mainly related to his excessive drinking. She spent much of the time talking about her doubt and uncertainty - should she go forwards with the relationship or break things off? Then my then husband told me about some serious things he had witnessed my friend's fiance getting up to in Marrakesh, involving prostitutes, stolen money, horrible stuff. Should I tell my friend or not? What a dilemma... Eventually, I decided I had to. Mistake! She rounded on me, accused me of making things up because I was "jealous", we had a very unpleasant and upsetting parting of the ways... </p><p>Years later, she got in touch again. They had married, had a child, he was a serious alcoholic, the relationship was in real trouble. Now we have reconciled again and she is divorcing... </p><p>I did the right thing according to my integrity but in hindsight... I don't know if I would be so honest again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 445272, member: 11227"] Your post, klmno, made me think of a situation that happened some years ago, when I was married to my (Moroccan) ex-husband. I was staying with a French friend who was due to get married to a Moroccan guy, a childhood acquaintance of my husband. She had various reasons to doubt the relationship, mainly related to his excessive drinking. She spent much of the time talking about her doubt and uncertainty - should she go forwards with the relationship or break things off? Then my then husband told me about some serious things he had witnessed my friend's fiance getting up to in Marrakesh, involving prostitutes, stolen money, horrible stuff. Should I tell my friend or not? What a dilemma... Eventually, I decided I had to. Mistake! She rounded on me, accused me of making things up because I was "jealous", we had a very unpleasant and upsetting parting of the ways... Years later, she got in touch again. They had married, had a child, he was a serious alcoholic, the relationship was in real trouble. Now we have reconciled again and she is divorcing... I did the right thing according to my integrity but in hindsight... I don't know if I would be so honest again. [/QUOTE]
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