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<blockquote data-quote="myfirstandlast" data-source="post: 403882" data-attributes="member: 3420"><p>Been talking to him a little. He doesn't want to talk about it, but I said, you can't say something like that and then just act like you didn't.</p><p></p><p>He says that is how he honestly feels. He took back the part about calling me a murderer, said that he didn't think it was "intentional" but still feels that I am responsible for his dad's suicide.</p><p></p><p>Okay. That's not more than I can deal with. We went to grief counseling for about a year after he died, and that all seemed to go well. No, I don't believe that he feels like he is to blame. You'd have to know his dad. Everything, ev-er-y-thing, was someone else's fault. Like if he lost his job because I didn't wake him up on time, that was my fault, not his. Anything in life that happened to him, someone else was to blame. Usually me. It was an unhealthy relationship and it had to end. His son is just like him, in so many ways it can be hard to cope with.</p><p></p><p>He has bronchitis again. He wouldn't go to the urgent care yesterday because I scared him when I said that they will probably want to take blood; his sister and I have both been there this month and they took blood samples to check since we'd been sick for a while. He's got a huge fear of needles and that was probably the spark that set him off. He's on another antibiotic, an inhaler, and some other stuff, and he's at his grandma's for the weekend. I've tried to cut back on those visits and it was met with HUGE drama, from both of them. </p><p></p><p>Going to look at the counseling options in our area. Already warned him up front about it. He's not pleased, but ... oh well. Stuff needs to get talked about, out in the open, and resolved.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="myfirstandlast, post: 403882, member: 3420"] Been talking to him a little. He doesn't want to talk about it, but I said, you can't say something like that and then just act like you didn't. He says that is how he honestly feels. He took back the part about calling me a murderer, said that he didn't think it was "intentional" but still feels that I am responsible for his dad's suicide. Okay. That's not more than I can deal with. We went to grief counseling for about a year after he died, and that all seemed to go well. No, I don't believe that he feels like he is to blame. You'd have to know his dad. Everything, ev-er-y-thing, was someone else's fault. Like if he lost his job because I didn't wake him up on time, that was my fault, not his. Anything in life that happened to him, someone else was to blame. Usually me. It was an unhealthy relationship and it had to end. His son is just like him, in so many ways it can be hard to cope with. He has bronchitis again. He wouldn't go to the urgent care yesterday because I scared him when I said that they will probably want to take blood; his sister and I have both been there this month and they took blood samples to check since we'd been sick for a while. He's got a huge fear of needles and that was probably the spark that set him off. He's on another antibiotic, an inhaler, and some other stuff, and he's at his grandma's for the weekend. I've tried to cut back on those visits and it was met with HUGE drama, from both of them. Going to look at the counseling options in our area. Already warned him up front about it. He's not pleased, but ... oh well. Stuff needs to get talked about, out in the open, and resolved. [/QUOTE]
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