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<blockquote data-quote="myfirstandlast" data-source="post: 403885" data-attributes="member: 3420"><p>He will never see the note. I'm going to keep it until the kids are both adults, then destroy it. In the note, written months before he died (he'd been thinking about it and/or planning it quite a while) he goes on about who he did blame. It wasn't me, it for sure wasn't the kids, and it won't bring him back. </p><p></p><p>Also I know that this person he named is NOT really to blame, either. He was deeply depressed and would not seek help. Wouldn't have accepted if it were offered. I already went through my personal H-e-l-l thinking that I should have done more, might have done something differently, could have made a difference. I know better, now, but it's a painful consequence of being a suicide loss survivor. My son will learn this too, with time, I hope ... it was no one's fault.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="myfirstandlast, post: 403885, member: 3420"] He will never see the note. I'm going to keep it until the kids are both adults, then destroy it. In the note, written months before he died (he'd been thinking about it and/or planning it quite a while) he goes on about who he did blame. It wasn't me, it for sure wasn't the kids, and it won't bring him back. Also I know that this person he named is NOT really to blame, either. He was deeply depressed and would not seek help. Wouldn't have accepted if it were offered. I already went through my personal H-e-l-l thinking that I should have done more, might have done something differently, could have made a difference. I know better, now, but it's a painful consequence of being a suicide loss survivor. My son will learn this too, with time, I hope ... it was no one's fault. [/QUOTE]
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