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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 477392" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p></p><p>There are a lot of emotions involved. I'm sorry that your state has so many hoops that you have to jump through (In my state, if the IEP team determines that Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is the placement, then in the child goes.)</p><p></p><p>Sometimes examining the losses can help you process the grief and, maybe, realize that you have more control than you think.</p><p></p><p>If your biggest loss is that you won't see difficult child every day, check with the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) on their phone/visitation policies. Most allow daily calls from parents and open visitation. There was a girl at one of Kanga's RTCs (who was not violent with her family). Her family ate dinner with her every Wednesday on campus and took her off campus 1 day every weekend and eventually she went home every Friday night and returned every Sunday night. They may want you to keep his off-campus visits in the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) community (rather than in your community) at the beginning while difficult child adjusts. The Residential Treatment Center (RTC) may even have a family house that you can use to stay there sometimes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 477392, member: 1169"] (((Hugs))) There are a lot of emotions involved. I'm sorry that your state has so many hoops that you have to jump through (In my state, if the IEP team determines that Residential Treatment Center (RTC) is the placement, then in the child goes.) Sometimes examining the losses can help you process the grief and, maybe, realize that you have more control than you think. If your biggest loss is that you won't see difficult child every day, check with the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) on their phone/visitation policies. Most allow daily calls from parents and open visitation. There was a girl at one of Kanga's RTCs (who was not violent with her family). Her family ate dinner with her every Wednesday on campus and took her off campus 1 day every weekend and eventually she went home every Friday night and returned every Sunday night. They may want you to keep his off-campus visits in the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) community (rather than in your community) at the beginning while difficult child adjusts. The Residential Treatment Center (RTC) may even have a family house that you can use to stay there sometimes. [/QUOTE]
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