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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 707799" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Most of the time when I see a post from somebody here I know cares about me, I feel happy. I just get this happy rush and feel excited, no matter what is objectively going on. I do not feel so alone.</p><p>Excellent.</p><p> Almost all of us have been where you are; not knowing where to turn...the fear is the worst of it for me...that there will be no solution...because my own son is an adult...and I cannot solve it for him.</p><p></p><p>Look. There are options. I know there are. First, did I mention behavioral analysis? There are specialists that will come into your home and study your child, the family interactions, the cues, the stressors. And they will develop a specific plan tailor made to address and correct the behaviors. They will train the parents.</p><p></p><p>The behavior you describe in your child is something that any professional would consider as needing diagnosis or intervention. I did not read everything (sorry, forgive me if I missed it)...any regional children's hospital will have a Child Development Program where they will do intensive testing and diagnosis to try to figure out what is going on and what intervention will be needed.</p><p></p><p>A pediatrician or child psychiatrist can refer you to a specialist that can do the behavioral analysis.</p><p></p><p>The schools have responsibility in this too, to provide a learning environment that supports your child, even non public school or residential treatment. I do not know what the school status is. My son was bullied, and his anxiety became a barrier to his success in school, so the district had to send him by taxi 45 minutes each way to a non-public school where he would not be treated with cruelty.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes our kids act out because something is going on in them, or around them that is painful and they do not understand it.</p><p></p><p>I hope you keep posting. It really helps. If you have time give us some more background, if you would. We care about you and want to be supportive and provide information as to resources and how to access it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 707799, member: 18958"] Most of the time when I see a post from somebody here I know cares about me, I feel happy. I just get this happy rush and feel excited, no matter what is objectively going on. I do not feel so alone. Excellent. Almost all of us have been where you are; not knowing where to turn...the fear is the worst of it for me...that there will be no solution...because my own son is an adult...and I cannot solve it for him. Look. There are options. I know there are. First, did I mention behavioral analysis? There are specialists that will come into your home and study your child, the family interactions, the cues, the stressors. And they will develop a specific plan tailor made to address and correct the behaviors. They will train the parents. The behavior you describe in your child is something that any professional would consider as needing diagnosis or intervention. I did not read everything (sorry, forgive me if I missed it)...any regional children's hospital will have a Child Development Program where they will do intensive testing and diagnosis to try to figure out what is going on and what intervention will be needed. A pediatrician or child psychiatrist can refer you to a specialist that can do the behavioral analysis. The schools have responsibility in this too, to provide a learning environment that supports your child, even non public school or residential treatment. I do not know what the school status is. My son was bullied, and his anxiety became a barrier to his success in school, so the district had to send him by taxi 45 minutes each way to a non-public school where he would not be treated with cruelty. Sometimes our kids act out because something is going on in them, or around them that is painful and they do not understand it. I hope you keep posting. It really helps. If you have time give us some more background, if you would. We care about you and want to be supportive and provide information as to resources and how to access it. [/QUOTE]
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