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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 506245" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>My son does not even walk into ANY doctor's office until I first go and get thru the issues and concerns and then when he comes in (he has already been measured and weighted if that kind of clinic) it is all about talking directly to him... how do you feel, check things out, do you have any worries or questions etc. </p><p></p><p>It really sets him off to have anyone talk in front of him. I had this temporary neuro one time... she didn't want to follow our routine (and routine is everything now a days Q will actually tell people , If I dont want to hear you I am going to leave and wait, OK?)... but at that time she said to me... well, I think it is very important to have the child hear all the concerns, that's what I do with my (neurotypical and no real problem) daughter. I said, well when you have to go home and be hit and have things broken by my son, you can do it that way. She wrote in her notes that I was an uncooperative parent. FUnny thing is, I have had the same docs for my son's entire life and they use me to talk to other parents... NO ONE has thought that about me before. She was just a jerk.</p><p></p><p>I think under a certain developmental level, they dont need to hear it, not all the gory details anyway... it is over their head and it can be a situation where they live up to expectations ... their own misunderstanding of the expectations and diagnosis that is. Maybe... thinking it is WHO they are rather than about what is going on with them.</p><p></p><p>Just MHO... and my experience with my son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 506245, member: 12886"] My son does not even walk into ANY doctor's office until I first go and get thru the issues and concerns and then when he comes in (he has already been measured and weighted if that kind of clinic) it is all about talking directly to him... how do you feel, check things out, do you have any worries or questions etc. It really sets him off to have anyone talk in front of him. I had this temporary neuro one time... she didn't want to follow our routine (and routine is everything now a days Q will actually tell people , If I dont want to hear you I am going to leave and wait, OK?)... but at that time she said to me... well, I think it is very important to have the child hear all the concerns, that's what I do with my (neurotypical and no real problem) daughter. I said, well when you have to go home and be hit and have things broken by my son, you can do it that way. She wrote in her notes that I was an uncooperative parent. FUnny thing is, I have had the same docs for my son's entire life and they use me to talk to other parents... NO ONE has thought that about me before. She was just a jerk. I think under a certain developmental level, they dont need to hear it, not all the gory details anyway... it is over their head and it can be a situation where they live up to expectations ... their own misunderstanding of the expectations and diagnosis that is. Maybe... thinking it is WHO they are rather than about what is going on with them. Just MHO... and my experience with my son. [/QUOTE]
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