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Substance Abuse
Yep.. relapsed
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 738225" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>He needs to take control of his OWN life.</p><p></p><p>Mommy and daddy can't fix this for any of these adults that choose to use substances and then wonder why their life is a mess!!</p><p></p><p>It is exhausting wishing they would change and worrying constantly what will happen next.</p><p></p><p>Every time my son called my stomach would turn upside down. I wanted him to disappear. Literally. How awful is that? I couldn't take it anymore.</p><p></p><p>Of course we love them so damned much and that is why it is excruciating for us. We watched our son try to destroy himself for seven years so I get it. Boy do I get it.</p><p></p><p>There is probably nothing you can say or do to make him change right now. That should be a bit freeing for you because I know personally, I always thought if I just said this...or I just did that....nope. Don't waste your energy.</p><p></p><p>The only thing that helped our son is turning our back on him and forcing him into the religious program he is in now. Thankfully we were able to do that. Otherwise I don't know where he'd be right now. Our son's soul was broken and there is only one fix for that....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 738225, member: 15032"] He needs to take control of his OWN life. Mommy and daddy can't fix this for any of these adults that choose to use substances and then wonder why their life is a mess!! It is exhausting wishing they would change and worrying constantly what will happen next. Every time my son called my stomach would turn upside down. I wanted him to disappear. Literally. How awful is that? I couldn't take it anymore. Of course we love them so damned much and that is why it is excruciating for us. We watched our son try to destroy himself for seven years so I get it. Boy do I get it. There is probably nothing you can say or do to make him change right now. That should be a bit freeing for you because I know personally, I always thought if I just said this...or I just did that....nope. Don't waste your energy. The only thing that helped our son is turning our back on him and forcing him into the religious program he is in now. Thankfully we were able to do that. Otherwise I don't know where he'd be right now. Our son's soul was broken and there is only one fix for that.... [/QUOTE]
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