Thanks everyone!
klmno, he does know about his board aunties! Both my kids know I come to a website for support and guidance, I am constantly saying "I read this..." or "someone said to try this..."
This last night was really tough, poor thing was having a lot of difficulty, he got really upset last night when it was bedtime because it hurt when he was breathing and he couldn't breath in deeply. He was crying and at first he said "oh no, it's going systemic" (fyi: his dad died almost 4 years ago after an infection that we didn't know he had went systemic) and then after I calmed him down and told him he had a cold not an infection then he was "I'm afraid to go to sleep that I might not wake up". I reassured him that he would be fine and told him he could lay in the recliner instead of on his bed if he wanted to. He was up several times during the night, but was sleeping fine this morning. He is so miserable, I did keep him home today - even though I cringe at letting him stay home, but with little sleep during the night and how miserable he is, I felt it was best.
Anyway, a 4-day weekend coming up by Monday, he should be back to normal and ready to take on the world! (I hope).
Christy