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"You have no compassion." From 36
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 611645" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Janet, I have offered to go down and get my grandson and bring him here. 36 is afraid of ex's reaction to him being alone with me out of state and also is afraid that his son will not do well unless he is with him. He may not. He barely knows me. Another thing is, with the schedule they have, ex would have to give her approval to allow me to have him for a few of her days AND IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN. She hates his entire family. Always did. Never told him a coherent reason why. In particular, she hates me because I give 36 his support (she doesn't know how I really feel about that "support") haha.</p><p></p><p>This very eager-to-be grandma is waiting for Julie, my sweet pastry chef, to give me a child and it may take a little while because she has some female problems, but eventually I think she will. Can't be too soon for me. She has been with her SO for 11 years and is now working part-time because they both want her to be more relaxed so that she can maybe get pregnant without taking fertility drugs. Remember...my once drug addict daughter is against most drugs now, even aspirin. But they both want a family enough to do the fertility thing if nothing else works. And Julie's child will really be my first grandchild that I can have contact with. </p><p></p><p>Janet, you are very lucky that you are so close to all your grandchildren. Oh, I know you have issues with them, but you know you are still lucky and they are lucky too to have such a loving grandma. And, frankly, I think you lucked out with your kids too. They may have issues, but they are kind to you. If I had a son as sweet to me as Corey usually is to you, heck, I wouldn't care if he lived with me either!!!! I'm sure your boy has compassion and cared when you were sooooooooo sick.</p><p></p><p>36 would freak out if anything happened to me. However, it would be more for himself. He would think that I would not be around to help him any longer. I mean, he loves me as much as he can love. But his love is limited. </p><p></p><p>Janet, thank you for your suggestion. I only wish I could. Grandson would definitely benefit from spending any time at all in our peaceful house in such a quiet, friendly town and low tension. I don't know if he will EVER come here. 36 is afraid to even drive to Chicago due to his anxiety. I have asked him to drive there many times, especially for the holidays, but he says he can't. His ex used to do the driving when they came up here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 611645, member: 1550"] Janet, I have offered to go down and get my grandson and bring him here. 36 is afraid of ex's reaction to him being alone with me out of state and also is afraid that his son will not do well unless he is with him. He may not. He barely knows me. Another thing is, with the schedule they have, ex would have to give her approval to allow me to have him for a few of her days AND IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN. She hates his entire family. Always did. Never told him a coherent reason why. In particular, she hates me because I give 36 his support (she doesn't know how I really feel about that "support") haha. This very eager-to-be grandma is waiting for Julie, my sweet pastry chef, to give me a child and it may take a little while because she has some female problems, but eventually I think she will. Can't be too soon for me. She has been with her SO for 11 years and is now working part-time because they both want her to be more relaxed so that she can maybe get pregnant without taking fertility drugs. Remember...my once drug addict daughter is against most drugs now, even aspirin. But they both want a family enough to do the fertility thing if nothing else works. And Julie's child will really be my first grandchild that I can have contact with. Janet, you are very lucky that you are so close to all your grandchildren. Oh, I know you have issues with them, but you know you are still lucky and they are lucky too to have such a loving grandma. And, frankly, I think you lucked out with your kids too. They may have issues, but they are kind to you. If I had a son as sweet to me as Corey usually is to you, heck, I wouldn't care if he lived with me either!!!! I'm sure your boy has compassion and cared when you were sooooooooo sick. 36 would freak out if anything happened to me. However, it would be more for himself. He would think that I would not be around to help him any longer. I mean, he loves me as much as he can love. But his love is limited. Janet, thank you for your suggestion. I only wish I could. Grandson would definitely benefit from spending any time at all in our peaceful house in such a quiet, friendly town and low tension. I don't know if he will EVER come here. 36 is afraid to even drive to Chicago due to his anxiety. I have asked him to drive there many times, especially for the holidays, but he says he can't. His ex used to do the driving when they came up here. [/QUOTE]
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