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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 296787" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>Honestly, assuming it IS only to be used in the research department and can't be used against you by CPS or anyone else, I think your therapist is right. With Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) kids, normal, everyday stuff, while still a challenge at times, is ....well, "relatively" normal and every day. It's times like the past year for you that really need support and more intensive treatments/actions. Not that this comes CLOSE but compare it to quitting smoking. If a smoker can quit during the most stressfull of times, then they should be more likely to stay a non-smoker. Know what I mean?? (said as I light up while typing this <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/slap.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":slap:" title="slap :slap:" data-shortname=":slap:" />)</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion, it may be difficult to answer honestly but if it can help others in the future, I think you should do it. Is it annonymous by the way?</p><p></p><p>I think back to when we first got difficult child and the information that I later found we did NOT have. Had we had that info, we would have known much sooner that we needed more intense counseling and services. And, after hearing more about the Tweedles and what information YOU had when you and your husband got them, I think the same would apply to you.</p><p></p><p>But...it's up to you to do this. If, after thinking about it, you feel you just can't, fine. If you think you can....go for it. It very well may help others like us in the future. And if nothing else, fill it out, set it aside for a few days and then re-read it. You don't HAVE to send it in.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 296787, member: 2459"] Honestly, assuming it IS only to be used in the research department and can't be used against you by CPS or anyone else, I think your therapist is right. With Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) kids, normal, everyday stuff, while still a challenge at times, is ....well, "relatively" normal and every day. It's times like the past year for you that really need support and more intensive treatments/actions. Not that this comes CLOSE but compare it to quitting smoking. If a smoker can quit during the most stressfull of times, then they should be more likely to stay a non-smoker. Know what I mean?? (said as I light up while typing this :slap:) in my humble opinion, it may be difficult to answer honestly but if it can help others in the future, I think you should do it. Is it annonymous by the way? I think back to when we first got difficult child and the information that I later found we did NOT have. Had we had that info, we would have known much sooner that we needed more intense counseling and services. And, after hearing more about the Tweedles and what information YOU had when you and your husband got them, I think the same would apply to you. But...it's up to you to do this. If, after thinking about it, you feel you just can't, fine. If you think you can....go for it. It very well may help others like us in the future. And if nothing else, fill it out, set it aside for a few days and then re-read it. You don't HAVE to send it in. [/QUOTE]
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