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<blockquote data-quote="welcometowitsend" data-source="post: 590169" data-attributes="member: 14356"><p>Ton - I think you should report this to the police or the credit card company and let them press charges and investigate. He has not learned his lesson in the past and won't in the future unless he feels the consequences ofhis actions. The longer he is protected from those consequences the harder it will be for him to learn. </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. It isn't easy, especially when you feel you were good parents and did what you could for your children in raising them well. It is heartbreaking and frustrating. </p><p></p><p>Better he learns these lessons now than later. And don't let this tear your marriage apart. It is a lot of stress and we tend to take our pain and anger and stress out on those we love and are most comfortable with. Try instead to have difficult child free dinners or days even where you refuse to allow his actions to creep in and infect your relationship. Getting back some peace and some enjoyment will help a lot. That is what my husband and I try to do. </p><p></p><p>Please come back and post again. The people here are wonderful, supportive and knowledgable and have gotten me through the last year. I'm very thankful for them and you will be too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="welcometowitsend, post: 590169, member: 14356"] Ton - I think you should report this to the police or the credit card company and let them press charges and investigate. He has not learned his lesson in the past and won't in the future unless he feels the consequences ofhis actions. The longer he is protected from those consequences the harder it will be for him to learn. I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. It isn't easy, especially when you feel you were good parents and did what you could for your children in raising them well. It is heartbreaking and frustrating. Better he learns these lessons now than later. And don't let this tear your marriage apart. It is a lot of stress and we tend to take our pain and anger and stress out on those we love and are most comfortable with. Try instead to have difficult child free dinners or days even where you refuse to allow his actions to creep in and infect your relationship. Getting back some peace and some enjoyment will help a lot. That is what my husband and I try to do. Please come back and post again. The people here are wonderful, supportive and knowledgable and have gotten me through the last year. I'm very thankful for them and you will be too. [/QUOTE]
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