Okay, I believe my son has sensory integration disorder. My neighbor has a very loud remote controll plus gas powered "toy". My son took one look at it and said "not again!". The neighbor then said to him "What are you a little girl?" I felt that was so rude to say to my son and wanted to say something to him. Loud noises really do bother him. How can I say something without sounding like an over protective mother?