mrscatinthehat
Seussical
Well since this has come up so many times recently is anyone else just so terrified of having another child they well um avoid what would make it happen.
I had been told years ago when I was married to ex #2 that I had blockage and was not able to have more. It was a blow and I accepted it after a while and moved on. Well when my current husband and I got together we debated if we wanted to try and find a way to have kids together. When I went back to the place that said I had the blockage they said no it was just a cloudy test (whatever they called it) but that they had sent a letter saying in all actuallity I was fine and could have more kids. First I wanted to fall down because I realized I had played roulette a few times.
Then with everything with our difficult child's we figured maybe it better to not have another. However he refuses to get a vasectomy. We can't afford for me to get the surgery I would need (I don't have insurance).
So since our kids are 15, 17 (on Saturday), and 18 starting over would be an OMG moment for sure. I am only 37 husband is 45 so the possibility is there.
Just wondered if I was the only one out here.
beth
I had been told years ago when I was married to ex #2 that I had blockage and was not able to have more. It was a blow and I accepted it after a while and moved on. Well when my current husband and I got together we debated if we wanted to try and find a way to have kids together. When I went back to the place that said I had the blockage they said no it was just a cloudy test (whatever they called it) but that they had sent a letter saying in all actuallity I was fine and could have more kids. First I wanted to fall down because I realized I had played roulette a few times.
Then with everything with our difficult child's we figured maybe it better to not have another. However he refuses to get a vasectomy. We can't afford for me to get the surgery I would need (I don't have insurance).
So since our kids are 15, 17 (on Saturday), and 18 starting over would be an OMG moment for sure. I am only 37 husband is 45 so the possibility is there.
Just wondered if I was the only one out here.
beth