i'm piggybacking klmno's post........i was going to write my mother also lol. it must be a full moon. sheesh
so, yup my mother i called her to be nice she recently was diagnosed with lupus and i figured it would be the daughterly thing to call say hi how are you feeling, etc.
well it turned into a debate, she's always asking about my job which is nice i guess yet sometimes i wonder why. they shut down 2 depts that lost funding we're hoping we aren't the next ones to go.
ok back to the topic sorry i do that lol, still! bounce, bounce, jump jump around with-my words!!
so after all the mistakes my mom made with-me and wow there were ALOT she had the nerve to say to me on the phone tonite do any children really have mental illness or is it all just environmental from these parents with whom can't support their kdis with a stable environment sort of thing cause when i was a kid there was no BiPolar (BP), or adhd or add stuff.
so, bit my tongue ok guys it bled. so i said to her so you think difficult child is just a product of environmental (my mistakes) or does she have a true diagnosis?? oh well i dont' know she says to me!! ha! All the changes that have gone on in her life, the moves, the divorce, the one long standing relationship i had following my divorce, before my boyfriend that didn't work out.
on and on she went til i finally said i gotta go mom sorry difficult child and i are eating dinner now.
there are days i will soo tell you i want to tell her exactly who she thinks she is and she'd better get off her high horse because she's got some nerve with-her background of decision making skills when she was a single parent holy carp!!! yet i stop myself each time and have to remind myself why would you do that, what good would come from it? id' feel good for about ten minutes than id' feel like garbage when i heard her crying.
yet boy there are soo days........my unresolved anger towards her would like to jump off the entire shelf in my "closet" named mom lol.
ok i'm done rambling now lol
so, yup my mother i called her to be nice she recently was diagnosed with lupus and i figured it would be the daughterly thing to call say hi how are you feeling, etc.
well it turned into a debate, she's always asking about my job which is nice i guess yet sometimes i wonder why. they shut down 2 depts that lost funding we're hoping we aren't the next ones to go.
ok back to the topic sorry i do that lol, still! bounce, bounce, jump jump around with-my words!!
so after all the mistakes my mom made with-me and wow there were ALOT she had the nerve to say to me on the phone tonite do any children really have mental illness or is it all just environmental from these parents with whom can't support their kdis with a stable environment sort of thing cause when i was a kid there was no BiPolar (BP), or adhd or add stuff.
so, bit my tongue ok guys it bled. so i said to her so you think difficult child is just a product of environmental (my mistakes) or does she have a true diagnosis?? oh well i dont' know she says to me!! ha! All the changes that have gone on in her life, the moves, the divorce, the one long standing relationship i had following my divorce, before my boyfriend that didn't work out.
on and on she went til i finally said i gotta go mom sorry difficult child and i are eating dinner now.
there are days i will soo tell you i want to tell her exactly who she thinks she is and she'd better get off her high horse because she's got some nerve with-her background of decision making skills when she was a single parent holy carp!!! yet i stop myself each time and have to remind myself why would you do that, what good would come from it? id' feel good for about ten minutes than id' feel like garbage when i heard her crying.
yet boy there are soo days........my unresolved anger towards her would like to jump off the entire shelf in my "closet" named mom lol.
ok i'm done rambling now lol