husband took the difficult children to a baseball game. For the most part they had fun. BUT, difficult child 1 accidently hit difficult child 3 hard enough to make him cry. husband said difficult child 1 was being spastic and lost track of where his arms were. difficult child 1 then had to play around people his own size. Then a little 5 year old latched on to difficult child 1. Why is it that difficult child 1 is the coolest thing on earth to some little boys? I just don't get it. According to husband the kid screamed twice and was running around difficult child 1. difficult child 1 started to run away from the boy. He followed saying "whats wrong? I stopped. " Then difficult child 1 growled at him, chest puffed out, leaning forward, fists balled, arms bent. One hairs breath away from attacking this little kid, in public, with husband right there. husband recognized that difficult child 1 needed help with the little boy and was on his way over when difficult child 1 did this. For some reason the child still thinks difficult child 1 is the coolest thing on earth and keeps following him around. husband has to firmly tell the kid to leave and go play somewhere else while he has difficult child 1 within arms length and is leaving. husband is scared and he doesn't say that often. And he is mad at difficult child 1. What on earth is going to happen to my child? He can't threaten people; especially little kids! husband really yelled at him. I yelled at him. OK, I don't yell. I'm so soft spoken. I talked firmly. It felt like yelling. difficult child 1 was still blaming the 5 year old. difficult child 1 is smart enough that eventually he stopped talking and just let husband get it all out. I could tell by the defiant look in his eye that he still thinks its not his fault. difficult child 1 is smart. We're not going to take him out in public for awhile and the supervision at home just increased. Actually difficult child 1's time stuck in his bedroom by himself just increased because I don't think I can supervise that much.