Oh this is just rich.... When BT called the other night, she kept going on and on about the email message she had received informing her that she was "fired". She wanted me to read it. I told her I didn't WANT to read it. The decision had been made by supervisor and supervisor's team - it was not up to me...and contract negotiations between BT's agency and supervisor are between the two of THEM - not me. And based on the way BT was carrying on....I assumed that the email had been worded very harshly and that the blame for the "firing" had been placed squarely on the parents...and I had been upset that I was implicated in any way. I checked my email yesterday morning and was RELIEVED that BT hadn't messaged me...(although her FB posts indicated that the devil was making trouble for her).... Turns out, BT messaged husband instead. She forwarded him a copy of a confidential email from supervisor to the head of BT's agency informing him that supervisor would be terminating the service contract for difficult child due to the following concerns. Supervisor was very clear that BT had gone outside the scope of the contract on these issues. All in all, it was a very clear, professional communication from the supervisor. Parents were NOT blamed. And each and every concern listed were things that BT was already well aware of... So husband responded to BT that he felt uncomfortable receiving this private communication that was obviously NOT meant for him....but that he agrees with the decision of the supervisor. He wrote that he was sorry BT was taking this so personally...and in light of the fact that the situation has become overly emotional...BT is NOT to contact any member of our family again. The husband forwarded a copy of BT's email plus his response to supervisor with a note informing her that BT was contacting us in regards to this issue and making us very uncomfortable. husband told supervisor that we do not want BT finishing out her contract. The end. But no... BT sent three emails so far this morning...telling us we are liars and that we have ruined her Christmas. She also gave us a copy of a letter she sent to supervisor, in which she accuses us of being neglectful and emotionally-abusive parents. So...we'll see how much farther she takes this... I will not be suprised if we hear from CPS.