And I can't believe I've even been thinking about it! I may go down there and find out what out-patient help they have. Any time I think about how great a day of peace would be, I end up in tears thinking I wouldnt' be tucking him. My baby is still in diapers! I did just order 123 magic, and the explosive child. I'm taking new data on the cursing because I think he is replacing some of the tantrums with cursing. Of course I will not know until I have enough data.