This is really getting on my nerves. Let me give you a few examples here lately: * The kids are in Louisiana for 3 weeks visiting grandparents. So ding a ling Tina decides to go walk around the animal shelter. Realistically I know that we do not need another dog. We have one, but she is the baby of the family and does not do well around other dogs usually. husband calls me when I am at the shelter and tells me if I want to get a dog thats ok with him. I found a pure bred Sheltie there so sweet. We bring our monster dog to the shelter to meet the Sheltie and she was aggressive towards her. So after tossing and turning all night last night and worrying that the sweet Sheltie would get hurt if we brought her home, I called the shelter this am and explained this to them. We were not able to pick her up until next week anyway and I have no doubts someone will adopt her. All day yesterday husband told me that he would leave this decision up to me. Then when he came home and I told him, he would NOT speak to me alllll day long! Then was mad at me because I didn't want to go out on a "date" with him. AS IF! * Scenario #2 I put husband through nursing school for 5 years. I busted my behind working so he could finish school. He told me when he graduated that I could stay home if I wanted. So, here I am..stay at home mom. He asked me last night "what are you going to be doing while the kids are in school this fall?" I said, why do I have to be "doing something"? He said "well you have been going stir crazy since the kids have been gone, I just think you need to be doing something". I swear I think every time he says to do something or its my decision, he means as long as its what HE would want. ughhhh! I just needed to vent, he is on my reserve nerve.