She called my cell phone last night about an hour after she would have arrived at the house and asked what I was doing. I told her I was at Buffalo Wild wings with BFF Jill eating dinner. She told me she was on her way home. I asked her how dinner was and she said, good, I brought Tiff (her bff) with me, I just dropped her off, now I'm going home. When I got home I kept it light and just said, so you had a nice dinner, and she said, I'm not going to lie to you, she was nice to me, but I told daddy she's not pretty at all and that her cousin Brittany was right. Then she said girlfriend left before she did, and that was within an hour, that she seemed really uncomfortable and didn't talk much and that she can't see what her father sees in her at all. Then she added how I'm much prettier then her and so much nicer, and that Tiff said the same thing. I said, well it wasn't like I was worried that she was going to replace me or anything and she said, omg, that could never happen. The only other things I asked her was if her daughter was there and she said no. And I asked her if she felt comfortable in the house or if she felt like a guest and she said she definatley felt like a guest. This made me angry at first, because I thought, how dare he!!! But then she added, I think that is because none of my stuff is there anymore, and this is my home now Why do I worry about her???? I guess it's just my motherly instinct, but she can hold her own and once again has proved to me what a mature, AWESOME, young lady she is. I still can't believe she told him that she's ugly, but Cay doesn't usually pull any punches. I'm just glad girlfriend had the dignity to be uncomfortable. I have to remember that she is the innocent victim in this and not the cause of any of my marital problems. She's a stupid innocent victim, but that is besides the point.