My 13/girl bipolar,turretts ptsd. risperidal,citalpram. she was hospitallized early dec hypomanic. I am a single parent not in the best of health. This is my last child at home she lies steals at home,friends ,family, and as a special Christmas bonus stores also. doesnt lift a finger in the house ..She tells people that I beat and abuse her,stays up alnight if I am not phisically in my bed roomshe will go take what she wants I mean a 2 minute hit and run .if she goes to the bathroom at any ones house she steals.
right before going to the hospital shje topld my best friend that she was scared for her to leave because I would beat her which lead to the end of the friend ship because she would not tell she waas lying(it all started because she was not going to get hair done with us because of breaking a rule repeatedly.as soon as the dust up was over and her audience was gone and I wasnt going to get my hair done either,tears dried up she was fine. She manipulates and lies like an expert. her treatment team says her next step is group home placement. this tears my heart out I love her more than anything she is smart genius smart but emotionaly behind. I feel like group home is a like a jail.child protective services said to take everything out of her room give her 2 sets of clothes .great idea but we live in a tiny apartment no where to put all her things they also say I am too soft heartedand should be more strict. She argues and antagonizes from the moment she opens her eyes I could be the strictest mom in the world but it does not matterbecause she doesnot listen to anything. I am going to have to make a decision about placement by 1/09/12 I know I am blabering. mental heaith care for children around here is not good. she would also be placed far away from where I live I know there are no easy answers I just needed a computer screen to cry on. Thank you guys
right before going to the hospital shje topld my best friend that she was scared for her to leave because I would beat her which lead to the end of the friend ship because she would not tell she waas lying(it all started because she was not going to get hair done with us because of breaking a rule repeatedly.as soon as the dust up was over and her audience was gone and I wasnt going to get my hair done either,tears dried up she was fine. She manipulates and lies like an expert. her treatment team says her next step is group home placement. this tears my heart out I love her more than anything she is smart genius smart but emotionaly behind. I feel like group home is a like a jail.child protective services said to take everything out of her room give her 2 sets of clothes .great idea but we live in a tiny apartment no where to put all her things they also say I am too soft heartedand should be more strict. She argues and antagonizes from the moment she opens her eyes I could be the strictest mom in the world but it does not matterbecause she doesnot listen to anything. I am going to have to make a decision about placement by 1/09/12 I know I am blabering. mental heaith care for children around here is not good. she would also be placed far away from where I live I know there are no easy answers I just needed a computer screen to cry on. Thank you guys