"Get used to it!" my difficult child 1 says about his using pot. I have put him in drug counselling and it doesn't help because he will still go out and use. Not to m ention the fact that he has also been caught stealing and drinking. I told him he gets picked up by the cops again that I am not going to bail him out again but of course he knows I would. The thing that bothers me the most is that he has snuck drugs and alcohol into my house and proceeded to coerce(not sure if I spelled that right) my 12 yr old into drinking and puffing. what should i do?