sooo the man is trying............ he's trying to stay awake on his days off. we've compromised monday's is mostly his i pass out everywhere day and i handle brunt of kids, dinner.
wednesday is his he does and has to stay awake day, i leave him a very small list of junk to do when here, also he cooks and cleans up and i go riding on this day.
we had a showdown a bit ago, whereas i told him listen clearly you are depressed, you have been blowing up a bit here and there the tools your learning in therapy arent' working. he's been going since we left for portland i told him it's time. so anyway i told him it's ssri time. it'll calm your nerves, lift the depression, calm the anger etc.
so he began yesterday. also the nights i want to sleep or rather have to we've formulated a slight plan on how to do it, i downloaded meditation music in my ipod and he gets that he has to be a grown up about it.
it'll take time to see real change till the medication kicks in. i think he just needs it temporarily while he handles his own therapy he's been working thru alot of old issues. yet he's trying, im trying and we'll see how it goes.
still waiting for him to return from therapy get the dead bird outta our basement the cats hunted down grose............, put tv in entertainment ctr i got on craigslist, and drop our broken vacuum off to be fixed.
we're still hitting bumps on his days off he wakes up nasty, he's tired, body hurts yet he can't seem to wake up pleasant. so i've come to conclusion i need to just simply ignore him till hes' nice.
update on as the stomach turns part 100
wednesday is his he does and has to stay awake day, i leave him a very small list of junk to do when here, also he cooks and cleans up and i go riding on this day.
we had a showdown a bit ago, whereas i told him listen clearly you are depressed, you have been blowing up a bit here and there the tools your learning in therapy arent' working. he's been going since we left for portland i told him it's time. so anyway i told him it's ssri time. it'll calm your nerves, lift the depression, calm the anger etc.
so he began yesterday. also the nights i want to sleep or rather have to we've formulated a slight plan on how to do it, i downloaded meditation music in my ipod and he gets that he has to be a grown up about it.
it'll take time to see real change till the medication kicks in. i think he just needs it temporarily while he handles his own therapy he's been working thru alot of old issues. yet he's trying, im trying and we'll see how it goes.
still waiting for him to return from therapy get the dead bird outta our basement the cats hunted down grose............, put tv in entertainment ctr i got on craigslist, and drop our broken vacuum off to be fixed.
we're still hitting bumps on his days off he wakes up nasty, he's tired, body hurts yet he can't seem to wake up pleasant. so i've come to conclusion i need to just simply ignore him till hes' nice.
update on as the stomach turns part 100