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Nana's are Beautiful
Story of my life.............
I can attract some of the oddest people, but also the lonliest.
Bad enough when this was in person. I'm too much the "nice guy" sometimes. But it's just plain weird that the exact same thing happens online!
I've been playing Farmtown on facebook. Fun and very addictive game. I hired someone to work my farm. A very nice lady, stress the nice part because she really is, who also happens to be a very very lonely lady. From what I've gathered in speaking with her......her main social is online and this game. Ok. That's fine. At least she's not a real odd ball or anything.
But.........But my problem is that this very nice person now pops into my farm everytime I'm on and talks. And talks. And talks. And talks. She popped in tonight while I was planting.......she kept me there talking for 2 hours. Several hours total yesterday. Now that's fine and dandy......uh sort of.......if I'm planning to be on that long anyway. But alot of times I want to just pop in do what needs to be done and pop out again. Which is what I meant to do tonight.
I do not want to be mean to her. She truely is a very nice person. Granted with too much spare time on her hands.......but still. I don't want to hurt her feelings.
Lordy. Somehow I suddenly find myself in these situations. My girls make fun of me that if there is a needy, or a lonely person within a 100 mile radius they will eventually find me. And then I have to find a kind way to distance myself from them so as not to hurt their feelings.
Well, one I just completely stopped contact with. She had made up her mind she was going to move in with me! (granted she's one of the difficult child ones)
My kids say I am simply too nice. Maybe I am. But sheesh, am I supposed to be mean and rude to people?
Am I the only one who draws these people to them like flies?
I think one thing that is freaking me a bit is the lady is pouring it on way too thick for only being aquaintances. It's not all her fault it has me back peddling and wanting to push her away. It's just that "oh I am now your bestest and dearest friend in the whole world" when I met you 2 days ago online.......really gives me a mega case of the willies. I have not had good experiences with these types of people in the past. She may become a good friend over time.........but I'm already feeling smothered by her.
easy child said to delete her as a neighbor and friend. I think that's a bit harsh. She hasn't really done a thing wrong. I'm just having issues. Know what I mean?? Granted, it may have to come to that. But I'm hoping she'll settle down after a few days and some heavy duty hints. I mean I know what it's like to be lonely. It's awful.
Of course then I could tell you about the guy on farmtown who wanted me to date him........... I had only just hired him to work my farm. sheesh I told him I hoped he was joking because I'm a grandma and married.....then had a friend come scare him away. lol
See what I mean?
I guess this is sort of a whine/vent thing. And I'm hoping I am not the only one with this issue. lol
I can attract some of the oddest people, but also the lonliest.
Bad enough when this was in person. I'm too much the "nice guy" sometimes. But it's just plain weird that the exact same thing happens online!
I've been playing Farmtown on facebook. Fun and very addictive game. I hired someone to work my farm. A very nice lady, stress the nice part because she really is, who also happens to be a very very lonely lady. From what I've gathered in speaking with her......her main social is online and this game. Ok. That's fine. At least she's not a real odd ball or anything.
But.........But my problem is that this very nice person now pops into my farm everytime I'm on and talks. And talks. And talks. And talks. She popped in tonight while I was planting.......she kept me there talking for 2 hours. Several hours total yesterday. Now that's fine and dandy......uh sort of.......if I'm planning to be on that long anyway. But alot of times I want to just pop in do what needs to be done and pop out again. Which is what I meant to do tonight.
I do not want to be mean to her. She truely is a very nice person. Granted with too much spare time on her hands.......but still. I don't want to hurt her feelings.
Lordy. Somehow I suddenly find myself in these situations. My girls make fun of me that if there is a needy, or a lonely person within a 100 mile radius they will eventually find me. And then I have to find a kind way to distance myself from them so as not to hurt their feelings.
Well, one I just completely stopped contact with. She had made up her mind she was going to move in with me! (granted she's one of the difficult child ones)
My kids say I am simply too nice. Maybe I am. But sheesh, am I supposed to be mean and rude to people?
Am I the only one who draws these people to them like flies?
I think one thing that is freaking me a bit is the lady is pouring it on way too thick for only being aquaintances. It's not all her fault it has me back peddling and wanting to push her away. It's just that "oh I am now your bestest and dearest friend in the whole world" when I met you 2 days ago online.......really gives me a mega case of the willies. I have not had good experiences with these types of people in the past. She may become a good friend over time.........but I'm already feeling smothered by her.
easy child said to delete her as a neighbor and friend. I think that's a bit harsh. She hasn't really done a thing wrong. I'm just having issues. Know what I mean?? Granted, it may have to come to that. But I'm hoping she'll settle down after a few days and some heavy duty hints. I mean I know what it's like to be lonely. It's awful.
Of course then I could tell you about the guy on farmtown who wanted me to date him........... I had only just hired him to work my farm. sheesh I told him I hoped he was joking because I'm a grandma and married.....then had a friend come scare him away. lol
See what I mean?
I guess this is sort of a whine/vent thing. And I'm hoping I am not the only one with this issue. lol