Well, difficult child 2 has to go to doctor on Monday after 4-5 months on clonidine(not helping). She has said he has to be 4 to be evaluated for any "disorders". so for now he has disruptive behavior disorder. he starts pre-k next month but I KNOW that will not last as he behaves as he does. Can I insist they do something? He will be 4 in 3 weeks. Plus pediatrician. is sending him to speech therapy for delays and feedinf trouble. He won't eating anything mushy. Most kids love icecream and cake but not him. and I also was told I will probably lose his Tenncare(medicaid) because for some reason they think we have too much money. YEAH RIGHT!! A family of four trying to survive on one income of $11.00 per hour plus child support being taken out. We CANNOT afford private insurance and I am afraid my kids won't get the treatment they need cause I cannot pay for it. I am just so frustrated with EVERYTHING!! I don't know what to do and difficult children behavior is getting worde by the day. He hits his OLDER brother all the time and hurts the dog etc. I just had to vent. Thanks for listening!!