As most of you know my daughter is 18, moved in with her Father who quickly paid for her to move in with a friend. I sent her to him to help her, not be her buddy and foot the bill for her own apartment. Here is my new dilemma. I am moving eight hours away to better the life of my son, my fiancé and I. We currently live in a town that is crime ridden, drug infested and not a good place to raise kids. My daughter knew this move was coming down the road at some point before verything blew up and we are now in this horrible place between her and I. I have practiced detachment since January with only brief communication through Facebook. My problem is, how do I tell her we are leaving? I am torn between sending her a "here is our new address" Facebook text to writing her a long gut wrenching letter. She already feels "abandoned" by my taking herto live with her Dad (I know, bs). What do I do?