She's been working at church for awhile now, doing child care, and apparently things were not as wonderful as she thought they were. She managed to PO several people regarding their kids, and is no longer working during services or special events. Today, she was let go from the mothers' group. They were kind, and told her it was about budget cuts. I'm of two minds about that...if she doesn't know what she's doing wrong, how can she be expected to change things? But then, would she change anything, or just blame everybody else? That's her standard MO anyway. I'm actually amazed she kept it together this long...usually 6 months is her max for friends, projects, boyfriends, whatever. She's supposed to be baby-sitting this summer during the mornings. I guess that wasn't one of the couples she PO'd. I honestly don't know what to do with her. I doubt she'll be able to hold a job for long, but I also doubt she'd be eligible for SSI, either. She graduated from high school without an IEP, is doing fairly well in college, no criminal record, no hx of substance abuse, no definitive diagnosis besides ADHD...I'm afraid she's going to fall through the cracks. Living with me forever is NOT an option. I just don't know.