I need all the help I can get, that's why it's so detailed. I don't even know what to think. Thanks.... A few months ago, I found stolen panties in my difficult child's apartment. There were even pantyliners and maxi pads (new) there (why!?).He told me he stole the underwear from the apartment's laundry room. I bagged them up,and threw them all out. Must have been around 80 to 100 pairs. Not much else was said. I asked my sister, and she told me about "Panty Raids" and that he probably masturbated in them. He also hasn't had a girlfriend since High School, and that only lasted 1-2 months. However, since then he's been living at home and I have caught him more than a dozen times, red handed, rifling through my underwear draw. He denied it every time, even though HE KNOWS I SAW HIM. I’ve also been noticing some of my kotex pads missing, too (again, why?!) He takes from his younger sister's, too. We've both been noticing missing panties for well over 6 or 7 years now but never thought too much about it until now. My easy child over the last 2 years now takes ALL of her underwear back to school with her, and now I see why I guess the most relieving bit is that it always seems to be clean panties he takes. Thank god for that, I guess. Now that I think about everything, I'm certain he's been doing this since he was a young teen. I don't care that he has a panty fetish. What I do care is that he stole hundreds of pairs from an apartment laundry facility, and is going through mine and his sisters' underwear. How would you have reacted initially? How would you react if you saw your teen or adult son going through YOUR underwear? What do I do now?! How can I get him to leave both mine and my daughter’s underwear alone!? Should I be concerned?