LittleDudesMom
Well-Known Member
I am still of the opinion that he is not happy (for whatever reason) in that classroom and a change needs to be made. I understand from Mrs. X that the majority of the class is boys and I also know there are some strong personalities in that class that dont mix well with his. I hope you will reconsider switching his class. This is not a good way to start the school year.
Jules, one more thing to add. Please don't take this the wrong way.
You have just approached the principal of the school and told them your son is not happy. Happiness has nothing to do with it, really. The ultimate goal for the teacher, the other students, your son, and yourself is for that classroom to be a safe place where children are able to learn. Period. If there are constant disruptions, because of behavior (or any other reason), it is taking valuable time away from the learning environment.
Rather than saying "in my opinion" which he can take or leave say something like "I am formally requesting that my son be transferred into another classroom as soon as possible. The dynamics in the room are not conducive to an ideal learning environment for any of the students given recent events. In conversations with his teacher, I understand that the mostly-boy numbers in the class may be contributing to the issues my son is experiencing. Please advise as to his new assignment or email me with your thoughts on this matter. I am available to meet with you, or any of your exceptional ed staff in regards to this matter. I look forward to hearing from you."
Do not address any other matters in the email.
Does your school have someone who is the chair of the IEP team other than the principal? Is there a director of special education at the school? Perhaps that is the person you should be in touch with...
Sharon