ok so difficult child has been rough today wow, we had our good moments but she's rough......is that how our children are? sometimes it confuses me whether it's behavioral or their issues at work or both? that always confuses me. boy she doesn't take no's well at all, it's like a struggle some days. my older one sat there today and said ok am i the only one who sees how insane this gets? she's very manipulative in her ways, very nasty at times, then next minute after name calling me or her sister she flips script and well say oh i love you so much. your head's still spinning from what they did prior. i guess we all go thru this, huh...? don't you ever wonder at times if it's simply behavioral?