Ok, I think plenty of us is going through difficult times with our ghg's at the moment!
But I'm really trying to not become the bad ugly mommy so could any one please put some 'niceness' back into me by explaining how and why this terrible behaviour is linked to illness, how? So that I can develope some empathy instead of anger again......
At times my son becomes the most anoing, irritating little boy by sitting and playing on the computer or what ever and then he will shout out the siliest, inappropriate things in the strangest silly voices.....For example: His little brother will be sitting next to him watching him play.....then he will say:Oh my lovely little brother....I love you so so much....you are so stupid....you little quity.....do you love me......let me give you a hug.......(few seconds later)....you are so STUPID......I don't love you....I am not your brother....agh....you are so so nice......exct!
Or when he doesn't get his way or things suddenly change he will start screaming.....telling me or his dad that he hates us......we are f#ck.....stupid.....he will take a knife and kill me......then crying......hating the whole world......
And sometimes it feels as if he becomes incontrolable....like all over the show....emotionally......saying all these things....trying to irritate his little brother....hugging me......shouting at me......CONSTANTLY forcing burps, like every few seconds.....When I tell him to please stop (in a very nice way).....he just say "what ever....I don't care or ok" and then burps again!
Or like when he bosses us around......agh...
But I need to ad that when he is happy and content and had good social interaction....he is the loveliest, well behaved, wonderfull little boy!
How can this all be illness....isn't it just bad old rudeness and personality?
But I'm really trying to not become the bad ugly mommy so could any one please put some 'niceness' back into me by explaining how and why this terrible behaviour is linked to illness, how? So that I can develope some empathy instead of anger again......
At times my son becomes the most anoing, irritating little boy by sitting and playing on the computer or what ever and then he will shout out the siliest, inappropriate things in the strangest silly voices.....For example: His little brother will be sitting next to him watching him play.....then he will say:Oh my lovely little brother....I love you so so much....you are so stupid....you little quity.....do you love me......let me give you a hug.......(few seconds later)....you are so STUPID......I don't love you....I am not your brother....agh....you are so so nice......exct!
Or when he doesn't get his way or things suddenly change he will start screaming.....telling me or his dad that he hates us......we are f#ck.....stupid.....he will take a knife and kill me......then crying......hating the whole world......
And sometimes it feels as if he becomes incontrolable....like all over the show....emotionally......saying all these things....trying to irritate his little brother....hugging me......shouting at me......CONSTANTLY forcing burps, like every few seconds.....When I tell him to please stop (in a very nice way).....he just say "what ever....I don't care or ok" and then burps again!
Or like when he bosses us around......agh...
But I need to ad that when he is happy and content and had good social interaction....he is the loveliest, well behaved, wonderfull little boy!
How can this all be illness....isn't it just bad old rudeness and personality?