april1974
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The boys got their report cards yesterday not exactly stellar remarks or grades...I know I need to be positive and not let it bother me but it does..then I have to remind myself it's only Junior Kindergarden and things will get better, or will they? they did promote them to Senior kindergarden, but they never fail kids in kindergarden...I'm scared that this is a precursor for things to come down the educational highway. M remarks were along the lines of "his behaviour gets in the way of having meaningful relationships with his peers" E remarks "when play breaks down it's usually because of his unwillingness to compromise" The both need to learn social cues to have more positive relationships...but then part of me is saying "F U teachers..they are 5, get a grip!" That is my mommy defences coming into play.
then I need not to compare them to their older sister who was a straight A student and was always " a joy to have in class" I'm trying so hard to not compare but it is really tough, inside I think, why does it have to be so hard for them? And then I have to remember they are boys...and school especially kindergarden is geared for girls....ok....enough of the whine...I love my boys we will get them through these hurdles.
then I need not to compare them to their older sister who was a straight A student and was always " a joy to have in class" I'm trying so hard to not compare but it is really tough, inside I think, why does it have to be so hard for them? And then I have to remember they are boys...and school especially kindergarden is geared for girls....ok....enough of the whine...I love my boys we will get them through these hurdles.