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Hi everyone,
I have not been on this site in a long time. So please bear with me.
I hope you are all doing well.
I am still having trouble with my 32 year old son. I think when I first started this forum
he was 30. He still refuses to communicate with my husband and I. Mu husband recently
wrote him a letter, but he would not let me read it.
Last time we visited our son was last September. He than told us he had a medical condition.
He told us he had cancer in his jaw. When we asked him why he didn't tell us sooner, his reply
was that he didn't want me to freak out. When we started to ask him questions about who his
doctor was he would not tell us. He is currently living with his friend and also has a girlfriend.
When both his Friend and girlfriend were there I said to them to please let us know in the
future if our son has any issues. Our son said NO they are not allowed to say any thing.
I did not comment on that cause I could feel an argument coming on.
When we arrived home after our visit. I called our son to let him know that we arrived home safely.
He said tome that we did not seem very upset about his medical news. I just told him that we did
not want him to feel worst. See our son is known to tell stories. And still at this point I really don't
believe him. He has lied so much that we do not know what is truth.
Yesterday I tried to get in a site that checks his back round. I found him on the site. It down loaded everything
and it said you can now access these records. I clicked on the button and they wanted a monthly fee, which
I can not afford.
Does any one know a site where you can check on someone, but not get charged? If so let me know.
Thank you so much for listening
I have not been on this site in a long time. So please bear with me.
I hope you are all doing well.
I am still having trouble with my 32 year old son. I think when I first started this forum
he was 30. He still refuses to communicate with my husband and I. Mu husband recently
wrote him a letter, but he would not let me read it.
Last time we visited our son was last September. He than told us he had a medical condition.
He told us he had cancer in his jaw. When we asked him why he didn't tell us sooner, his reply
was that he didn't want me to freak out. When we started to ask him questions about who his
doctor was he would not tell us. He is currently living with his friend and also has a girlfriend.
When both his Friend and girlfriend were there I said to them to please let us know in the
future if our son has any issues. Our son said NO they are not allowed to say any thing.
I did not comment on that cause I could feel an argument coming on.
When we arrived home after our visit. I called our son to let him know that we arrived home safely.
He said tome that we did not seem very upset about his medical news. I just told him that we did
not want him to feel worst. See our son is known to tell stories. And still at this point I really don't
believe him. He has lied so much that we do not know what is truth.
Yesterday I tried to get in a site that checks his back round. I found him on the site. It down loaded everything
and it said you can now access these records. I clicked on the button and they wanted a monthly fee, which
I can not afford.
Does any one know a site where you can check on someone, but not get charged? If so let me know.
Thank you so much for listening