JJJ
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For years Kanga has accused the other children of touching her inappropriately. The first time we freaked out, investigated, had therapist involved, etc. Only to have it determined that it hadn't happened. On the first night of Eeyore's placement with us, Kanga touched him inappropriately -- we reported it that very minute -- and we were on a safety plan from that point on. So, between the strength of our safety plan, and the wildness of her accusations (one accusation claimed that Tigger (age 15 months) pinned her (age 5.5 years) down and touched her during the night. Um, Tigger didn't even know to get out of the crib at that age nor open the door!! , it was unfounded.
Two years ago while hospitalized, she told the family therapist that she knew how to hurt us -- by telling these stories and getting CPS to take our other kids. Family therapist said if Kanga was her daughter that she would never allow her home again because she could easily damage our family with her lies. Kanga never slept under the same roof as the others again except for a couple of weeks when we had no choice and the others slept in our room with our bed pushed up against the door.
This will make CPS investigation #5 (or maybe 6 - seriously I have lost track). I'm so sick of it!
I KNOW nothing happened. I knew it because the kids were always supervised. I knew it because the tdocs investigated and told me so.
I'm not really mad at current therapist for calling CPS as her license is at stake if she doesn't. But I am furious at Kanga!!!
We were suppose to have a full family visit on Sunday. It is now going to be me driving up for family therapy and that is it - no visit. No phone calls this week. husband will visit 3 weeks later. We are going to stop all contact with her siblings. I cannot believe we are going through this again.