She seemed ok about the therapist- I told her I'd been making calls all day to try to find another and am waiting to hear back from one. The others wouldn't take this issue in a 13yo, or either weren't male. Of course, I had to explain exactly what happened yesterday. I guess it's a good thing that I had mentioned to her last month that therapy didn't seem to be getting anywhere with this guy, so I guess she wasn't too shocked. And, she was in court in Jan when I testified to the judge about what type of therapy was being sought for difficult child and why (which the judge ok'd), so she seemed to say that she didn't blame me. But, she is going to call the therapist next week to see what he has to say about it. She said she'll ask if he'll put something in writing stating that he can't or won't do this therapy or that difficult child doesn't need it. (I coouldn't believe she was trying for this, too) Anyway, I tried to prepare her that he's pretty ticked at me and had said some odd things so I'm not too sure what he might say to her. I didn't come right out and say this, but I wouldn't be at all shocked if he lied to her.