My 34yo difficult child just can not get his life together. He had asked me for money to get back to Fl after he said the truck they were using for their job broke down about a month ago. He said as soon as he was back at his friends house he would reimburse me. I knew that was a joke. Now he is texting me for money saying he is in another city - when I started asking questions about what is going on I find he has lied about the truck breaking down - the friend violated his parole and is in jail. When I asked about him friending the girlfriend from hell on FB that I had to call the police to stop the harrassment he gets snarly. She was supposedly going to kill him after they had another drunken fight and she came after him with a knife. I told him I only hear from him when he wants money - of course he is very hungry and needs it for food. I am not so sure he is not back with the girlfriend. He really got nasty when I questioned him. The town where he says he is at is really close to her mother's where they were living. I am tried of having no way of contacting him, worrying about when he obviously doesn't care enough about me to let me know where he is and if he is alive or dead. This is part of the next he sent when I didn't jump to his request for money: but thanks for nothing. thanks for not letting me have a dad who would probably help me in a time of desperation. its good to know that i am truly alone in this world. i gotta go, i have a suicide to plan He also said he wished he had never been born - sadly sometimes so do I!