He's making jabs tonight. P/a is rearing it's ugly head. Counselor told me to meet it head on, so i did.
He tossed a tshirt of mine and 2 granny socks that I accidentally washed with his work clothes on my pillow. Normally, I would not have left the load unfolded, but I swapped the laundry right before we left tonight. When we got home, he put his stuff away while I was changing wee's bed, etc.
When I came into the bedroom, I hung the shirt on a hanger and he said 'that doesn't go in the drawer?' I said it didn't really matter where it goes, I don't care. Then I tossed the socks into my sock box and he said 'those going there?' yes...they are socks....they go in my sock box. And then I said 'why? Would you have put them away if you knew where they went?'.
He said no and went to sleep.
So is that meeting him head on and calling the behavior out?
And if the man uses 'I'm just so busy, when would i have had time' one more time, I think I'll puke. Let's see, this week alone he has fished from 5pm to dark 3 nights and rode his mule 5pm to dark one night... And Rode with me to ex-brother in law's one day/night. Today he slept til 1. Gee, I just don't know how you could pack anything more into thy schedule....