If you recall, I posted a few weeks ago about the possibility of becoming FB friends with the sis of my ex-H's second wife. (He is dead now but when we were teens, I was good friends with both these sisters.) Anyway, we befriended and I emailed and told her I wasn't sure how to approach it and didn't want to cause anyone frustration or hurt feelings. She emailed back and said she never liked my X/her brother in law anyway and never saw what I or her sis saw in him. LOL! It sounds like this will turn out ok after all!