crazymama30
Active Member
I want to just smack husband. I am tired of his poor me **** that he uses when it is convient to him. We have a repair man coming out to fix the washer tommorrow. We live in my mom's house, it is her washer, and she works at same store as the repair man. The house is trashed. It is always pretty much trashed. My mom is not much of a housekeeper either(actually I am a tad better) but I want the house at least half decent when the guy comes. I asked husband to clean. Vacccuum, sweep, mop do counters. I do not usually ask this much as his pain is bad, and it gets worse with vaccuuming and sweeping type movements. I thought he could do it once. Wrong. What did he do? He kinda swept. By kinda, I mean I got 2 full dust pans when I redid it. Now if I did that he would have a cow. But it is ok for him. So I went and worked out, went to one of my jobs, went to class, made dinner, and then cleaned house. What did he do??? He visited with a friend and went and worked out and made himself so sore he can barely walk. Not the normal work out pain, but the bad chronic pain kinda pain. Why? Why pray tell would someone who knows he cannot use the cardio equipment without suffering use it??? Because he wants to increase his endurance.
Now with all that being said, I feel bad. husband does do quite a bit usually around the house. He does dishes and laundry. He does have a lot of pain, and I don't know how well his BiPolar (BP) is controlled right now. But right now I don't care. He won't talk to me about anything, does not want me to go to doctors appts with him because I ask questions (how else do you get answers?) Well, now I don't feel bad. I am just getting pi**ed.
Argggghh
Now with all that being said, I feel bad. husband does do quite a bit usually around the house. He does dishes and laundry. He does have a lot of pain, and I don't know how well his BiPolar (BP) is controlled right now. But right now I don't care. He won't talk to me about anything, does not want me to go to doctors appts with him because I ask questions (how else do you get answers?) Well, now I don't feel bad. I am just getting pi**ed.
Argggghh