You are right, RF...it is people's own interpretation, so perhaps when typing out your words, you should read it first and make yourself a little clearer on your meaning. Several of us took your post as though you were annoyed with crazymama for venting. No one says you can't have a different point of view. We all want others' opinions here, but perhaps when your opinion is in vast contrast to someone else's, lighten it up a bit.
This is not the first post that you have made that sounds argumentative. This is not the first thread that's been locked because of this, either. I will lock this now.