BusynMember
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It's gorgeous! Double wide, new, skylights, two big bathrooms and a huge kitchen, nice size all around. But I'm still an emotional wreck from the stress, plus now my dad won't talk to me. I planned an 85th year old surprise party for him (MY IDEA) and my sister was going to do it at her house since he lives in her state. One day, when all this was going on about the house, and I was so near the end of my rope, I said to sister, "I may not even show up at the party. I'm not even sure I won't be in the hospital." So she told him we had a party planned and that she was canceling it because of me--that I was mad at him (which I kind of am, but she wasn't supposed to tell him! I don't tell him when SHE is mad at him). AND SHE CANCELLED IT, including telling my brother to sell his ariline ticket. And I'm sure she blamed me. If she had said, "Then I'm canceling" I would have found a way to show up.
Anyway, he won't answer the phone now and he's a very self-centered man and may never talk to me again. Who knows? My mother disinherited me too. I'm used to it (only it's not funny. It hurts, like you never meant anything to the parent). To say the least, I don't have a loving family. So I'm seeing a therapist this afternoon, and trying to see all that in a new light. At least we have our new house and my daughter, who I was so worried about, is so excited that she wants to bring her brings to see it on the inside. I worried for nothing . But I always worry for nothing (anxiety disorder, panic disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)...I have all three...not fun, even on medications). Anyway, I just wanted to update all of you great people on the good, the bad, and the ugly. My Dad is acting like a baby. He won't talk to me. If I call, he picks up the phone then disconnects. I feel like a naughty little girl...grrrrrrrrrrrr...Hub is great. He tells me to forget the family; they are nuts. If Dad disinherites me, like Mom did, so what? We have our house, our kids, and all that stuff.... I'm glad I have him.
Anyway, he won't answer the phone now and he's a very self-centered man and may never talk to me again. Who knows? My mother disinherited me too. I'm used to it (only it's not funny. It hurts, like you never meant anything to the parent). To say the least, I don't have a loving family. So I'm seeing a therapist this afternoon, and trying to see all that in a new light. At least we have our new house and my daughter, who I was so worried about, is so excited that she wants to bring her brings to see it on the inside. I worried for nothing . But I always worry for nothing (anxiety disorder, panic disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)...I have all three...not fun, even on medications). Anyway, I just wanted to update all of you great people on the good, the bad, and the ugly. My Dad is acting like a baby. He won't talk to me. If I call, he picks up the phone then disconnects. I feel like a naughty little girl...grrrrrrrrrrrr...Hub is great. He tells me to forget the family; they are nuts. If Dad disinherites me, like Mom did, so what? We have our house, our kids, and all that stuff.... I'm glad I have him.