I need to know what are options are when difficult child is having a full blown rage. husband is having to restrain him which always scares me because he is not trained to do that and difficult child can get hurt. This atmosphere is not good for any of us, including my 3 year old son who does not understand what is going on. So what can we do? Do we call his psychiatrist? His therapist? Take him to the ER? Call a crisis line? What have you done in situations like this and what worked? I just don't know what to do. I wish I could shoot him in the butt with a tranquilizer gun.